And Now A Word From Your Pastor...
April 2003
Some pastors are just more blessed than others. As in all things, one can only wonder ‘Why?’. But then, there is no answer except to remind oneself that all good things come to us from God, so often through the goodness of those around us. That is how I feel as I approach my 30th anniversary of Ordination to the Priesthood. As I look back on those 30 years, I marvel at how quickly the time has gone. Granted, some days seem longer than others and ‘not every day has been a holiday’, but never have I regretted accepting the invitation to consider the Priesthood as my vocation. I am especially thankful to the Church for calling me to such a high office.
So many people have been a part of my Priesthood, like threads forming a magnificent tapestry. I often wonder what direction my life would have taken if I hadn’t entered the seminary and journeyed to the Priesthood. Yet, I can’t imagine being happier or more fulfilled in any other vocation. I am just amazed that I had the sense to recognize God’s call and follow it. I can still hear my Mom’s admonition as I was preparing to enter the seminary way-back in 1964: “Just make sure this is what you want to do.” My entire family was taking my entering the seminary and possibly the Priesthood seriously. I had better take it seriously and do my best. Throughout these 30 years I have tried to do just that. Some might consider the life of a priest to be one of complete sacrifice and
suffering. I tried to convey that image to my family for many years and, at first it worked. But, as time went by and they began to notice how happy I was and how I just didn’t seem to be starving or deprived, they began to get the true picture. It all came to a head when celebrating my 25th anniversary at Mary, Mother of God, Church in Hempstead and the parish present me with a new truck. Even some of my fellow priests who thought of me as not very successful, being ‘stuck’ in small or not-so-prestigious parishes, had to re-evaluate their opinion of ‘Kucera’. As Fr. Kelly was wont to point out so often during our 14 or so years together, “You always seem to fall into it.” And I definitely have.
I am now definitely the envy of every priest in the Diocese. A new truck when celebrating one’s 25th anniversary is one thing. Another new truck when celebrating one’s 30th anniversary is unheard of, until now. When the word eventually spreads throughout the Diocese and becomes the topic of conversation among priests, I know I’ll be receiving envious looks at priests’ meetings and remarks like ‘Not again!’. I am still stunned at receiving again a new vehicle by parishioners who I am so fortunate God has placed in my care as pastor. The question has always been who is caring for whom. These 30 years have convinced me that it is you, the faithful, who have taken such good care of me and made this ‘job’ a real pleasure.
When the discussion arose about getting me a new truck because of the mileage on my old truck, I was kinda embarrassed. Everyone has been so welcoming and kind since my arrival almost 4 years ago. Just being in such a wonderful community, surrounded by parishioners who have been so receptive and cooperative, is itself a gift. Priest friends get tired of my raving about how good I have it and how much we are accomplishing. So, when this truck thing came up, I thought I’d just wait and see if it would really come to pass. I wasn’t really sure how the funds would be raised until I saw a flyer which, I have to admit, I tried not to read too closely. Again, I was a little embarrassed, knowing that I really didn’t deserve such thoughtfulness. I eventually discovered that a mailing had been sent to parishioners and friends of the parish, far and wide. Even the gang at Shelby Store got the flyer. I can only remark again how blessed I am to have friends who are more like family. On one occasion I was politely asked to ‘hurry home’ while a meeting of store regulars considered their donation to Fr. Ed.’s truck. I am still in disbelief of everyone ’s generosity. I was told that there was one oversight in the mailing. Since all who receive a bulletin were part of the mailing list, the Bishop also got the flyer. I haven’t checked if he sent a response. He’ll probably comment at our next priest’s meeting on March 28th. Anyway, the thought of so many responding and responding so generously will never be forgotten in my prayers of thanksgiving to God. I am humbled at His goodness in giving me such a wonderful family of friends.
I originally thought of getting the truck and showing it off at the time of my anniversary, April 14th. However, the outcry was that everyone was looking for the new truck in the driveway or on the road and worried that the old truck would break down and I’d be stranded. April 14th was too far away. We had to search for the new truck, pronto.
I have had a Ford truck and several Chevy trucks, pleased with them all. I was asked if I had ever considered a Dodge. I never had, though I promised I would go and look. Well, I was very impressed and seriously inclined in that direction. Knowing little about the Dodge truck, I asked around. The overwhelming response was stick with a Ford or Chevy. There don’t seem to be too many Dodge guys around these parts. Depending on the recommendation and expertise of knowledgeable truck owners, I decided on what I have experience of: the Chevy. I hope all will be pleased with the choice. The color is an almond brown. It is a super cab with the second door. It will be very difficult to give up my ‘98 black Chevy which has served me so well. It is now approaching 195,000 miles, the best miles being those which brought me from Waller County to Grimes and Montgomery Counties. Unlike receiving such a spectacular gift of my truck for my 25th anniversary and the next year being transferred to St. Mary/St. Joseph, I intend to put on all the mileage here . Hopefully, my 40th anniversary will find it sitting in the drive way, a familiar landmark to all.
Yes, some pastors are more blessed than others. I am fortunately one of the most blessed. When studying in the seminary, I would pray that I was making the right decision and that God would bless my Priesthood. My dreams of being a happy priest would always revolve around the people God would call me to serve. I would never have dared to dream of the kind of happiness with which God has showered me. It would have been presumptuous. It just goes to show that God not only answers prayers, but does so in dramatic and unexpected ways.
A sincere Thank You to all who gave so generously so that I might have ‘wheels’. Please know that when I open the door, turn on the engine and put my foot on the excelerator, I acknowledge God’s goodness and your generosity and pledge myself even more to be a good pastor, using this vehicle to serve you.
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